purr-suit of happiness!
Hello all,
Have you ever felt like, you are just a seed!
Yes. A seed!
A fertile seed.
A seed that does not know what it is going to turn into.
It might turn out to be a great tree
Maybe a beautiful flower
or a wild weed that attract bees.
You just know that you will turn into something
something good
something that have a real purpose.
I always thought that one has to have purpose in life.
A ship without a destination is bound to float aimlessly
maybe never reaching a safe port.
If you have a purpose you know where you will end up and you will know what to do!
The worse than not having a purpose in life is to think that you had one!
You work hard, diligently to achieve your purpose in life.
You pass hard life tests, blood, sweat and tears...
Finally, when you come to your final destination...?
You say to yourself I thought that I had a purpose,
I thought I really wanted this...
All these years I have worked for this thing to come a reality...
But now I am here though, I am not sure this is what I have visualized it would be
I am not sure I still want this!
All those years of working hard and effort is crowned with a great disappointment.
After all what you aimed to reach is a something made by humans
it has all its terrible imperfections we all have
it has the essence of human story
drama, lies, unfairness, bullying, discrimination, backstabbing, cheating, lack of justice and all!
You just turn back within and ask to your self,
Should I have regret for putting all these effort into this?
Did I do wrong? If I am not happy with where I am at now and I was able to come here with a great effort!
What should I do now?
A little advice to you from me !
Don't aim to achieve career goals, material goals or any other earthly goals as your purpose!
Each time you will regret where you end up with!
Listen to yourself and make your happiness your goal!
Try to do what it is that make you happy!
This is a real life lesson I learned from the hard way!
I know you are saying its easy to say than to do it!
That is so true, sometimes you postpone your dreams due to different reasons like lack of money, lack of time, lack of mindset or just lack of suitable situation.
The thing is that life is always throwing things to you and no time is the right time!
Also, we have a very limited time in the game called life,
each breath we take we get one step closer to the death.
So I advise to take one small step at a time for happiness.
Especially, when you are young full of ambition and lack of experience,
you think that if you worked hard and get a career on a certain topic, you will do good and be happy.
This kind of mindset is very biased because at that age you are very open to be influenced by the opinions of others and lives of the people you see from a far.
Unfortunately, nobody would show their emotions unless they are very happy and thriving even the people you thought that achieved everything and came to a certain step in life.
Everybody fakes their lives (check the social media, people are faking their life for a stupid like or a follow, they even turn into clowns for attention).
Oh look what a great life I have.
Look at the car I have look at the house I live!
Look to me at this great vacation.
Look at the way I look (you look fake by the way)
Just makes me want to vomit.
The persons you want to be like, are actually living a very miserable life!
Its all for the attention!
They are lonely, miserable and addicted to attention.
I agree we are social creatures we need to interact but in life if there is something
to be envied, that would be happiness.
Believe me its more valuable than every material thing
How can one person be happy?
for example can you be happy by storing pushing all your emotions inside so that you have a poker face to outside world and pretend you got it all figured ?
We all know that is not it!
We have to show our emotions in a healthy way to the world to be happy.
We need to be real we!
That is the first condition to be happy.
We need to accept ourselves with all of our imperfections
and than tap on our shoulders every once in a while.
We also need to know ourselves very well in this process as well.
maybe it can be achieved this way:
this is from the introduction of my book "About you".
A person can find their most vulnerable parts, insecurities, dark side and shortcomings this way.
When you become aware of these and when you have the will to transform them
into something that you can accept more
than you start to develop yourself
You start to win battles against ego, anger, hatred, revenge
all the emotions that bring more suffering and unhappiness.
There is more to your happiness reader.
Don't blame me if happiness don't show up
after you did all I have talked about.
Happiness is constant battle
and it does not only involve you
it starts with you,
Yes it starts with you and your pursuit of making other people happy around you.
Don't go start giving "free" blow jobs to everyman you see or vice versa for man for the woman around you. I am sure it would give happiness to the receiver (with "free" i am not implying that you should do it with money, I mean with the intent of receiving anything in return for example pleasure, stds etc.).
I try to mean if you want to be happy, you have to reduce your suffering and help others to reduce their suffering.
For example at the moment I am suffering very much and I could enjoy to receive any kind of job.
If you want something in return I've got some coins... 😜
(Photo : Sebastian Sørensen)
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